That's what she thinks, anyway. Jeff Childers at Flopping Aces wrote a takedown of the feminist and her article. The original is linked below if you think he is overstating the issue. (He isn't.) Feminism Told Women They Didn’t Need Men – Now They’re Dining Alone, Writing Op-Eds, and Wondering Where Everyone Went
Rachel Drucker, the author of the oringinal lament, doesn't say on what terms she wants men back, but Flopping Aces covers that.
The piece’s writer, Rachel Drucker, 53, described herself as a divorced former custodian of records for Playboy Magazine. Thanks to her smut-peddling experience, she’s become an expert on men. Or at least, that’s what she thinks. “I came to understand,” Rachel lectured readers, “in exact terms, what cues tempt the average 18-to-36-year-old cis heterosexual man.”
But alas! At 53, Rachel’s bag of transactional smut-peddling tricks is empty. Or at least, she’s shot past the 18-36 runway. Rachel now lives in a rom-com. She described her New York life as though she were a main character in Sex and the City. After one gentleman politely excused himself at the last minute from a date, she got dolled up anyway and took herself out for dinner. Rachel doesn’t need a man!
Maybe it is just the company I keep, but I don't hear the statement, "A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle," as much as I did during the 1980s.
Rachel Drucker is the strong woman. Career. Married and Divorced. She doesn't say what went wrong. For once, at least for the time being, there is a New York Times article that is NOT behind a firewall. You can read it for yourself.
Women were once signifiers of value, even to other men. It wasn’t always healthy, but it meant that men had to show up and put in some effort.
That dynamic has quietly collapsed. We have moved into an era where many men no longer seek women to impress other men or to connect across difference. They perform elsewhere. Alone. They’ve filtered us out.
Feminists told men to get lost. Well, outside of hookup culture anyway. Men would need to do half the dishes, half the laundry or be derided for not "doing their fair share." How many of the women mow the lawn, or better yet change the oil in the lawn mower. You can't stop by Jiffy Lube, or wherever, on your way home from work, and overpay to have someone change the oil, as you can do with a car. (And yes, I overpay to have someone else change the oil in my car, and I have for decades, but I do change the oil in my lawn mowers - plural.)
As Jeff Childers points out in the 1st link above, there is no reflection on the part of Ms. Drucker to ask, "Why did the men leave?" It couldn't be because they were told they were toxic, could it?
Mr. Childers goes on to discuss MAGA, and the whole tradwife thing on TikTok or Instagram or wherever it is to be found. Not sure I agree with everything he says, but the Democrats seem completely clueless when it comes to the current crop of young men.
As Shoe0nHead pointed out, after the election last year, Democrats, after calling young men the "Hilter Youth," basically asked the question:
How do we get young men to get on board with "Young men eat shit and die!" movement?
Her suggestion that you not call them the Hitler Youth made half of YouTube explode. And listen long enough to hear the section about "The Liberal Joe Rogan." It is about 7 and half minutes to get from where I have the video cued, to the part where Shoe0nHead predicts the blue wave of podcasts, such as Governor Hairgel, and Michelle Obama have tried to start.
By the way, with all these like journalists and people talking about how we need a liberal Andrew Tate, a liberal Joe Rogan, yeah, be prepared to see some of the most forced, overproduced, AstroTurfed, streamers and YouTubers to pop up overnight, and subtly, or not so subtly, start shilling for the Democratic party. You're going to start seeing funded DNC plants all over YouTube, Twitch, TikTok because they really do think the answer to all of this is "more podcasts."
That whole video is worth it by the way, if you can find the 35 minutes, or so, to watch it. (Image at the top was lifted from Flopping Aces.)
When I got to the bottom of the Flopping Aces story, it redirected me to the Coffee and COVID substack for the entire takedown.